Skinny Little Softy

Hello my name is Mathew, I just recently moved to Phoenix from Minneapolis to get away from the cold and I am looking for that perfect someone. = )
There is definitely more about me that I could possibly speak of here, but ill do my best...

For starters I am kinda a small guy for my age and have had certain issues that have affected my weight (115lbs). Some in my control and others out of.
I know it is an issue for some of you and I am in the process of taking care of this for my own sake, but that takes time.
I am usually quiet, but I am easy to talk to. I have grown up moving around quite a bit (I was born here in Phoenix) and have met some very interesting people in my lifetime. I have grown up taking care of myself mainly and have a very small family, so I am well versed in fending my own. Unfortunately; I am not a very wealthy man. I am young and learning, so don't expect much right off.. I do however, have managed to secure a stable house and in the process of employment in this state...so don't assume me as deadbeat status and if your looking for wealth please move on since I am here for Love and nothing else. Im sure that says enough for you to get a picture of my lifestyle.

I do smoke and drink every once in a while. Im trying to quit smoking.(mostly why im unfit atm)
I love spending time with friends and going out.
I can be stubborn at times for going out, but since I have been back home in the sun I am loving every minute of being outside!!
I am a man who trusts in God and I have love for each and every person on this earth.
(some more than others of course.)
I am looking for that special somebody who will complete me, im here in hope that she is too. I know it will take time to get to know people and hopefully make great friends in the process.
I am a very sweet and caring male. I do not have a big Ego, I treat everybody with respect as long as they respect me and am probably more emotional than guys should be.. It kind of makes me somewhat of a softy, but that's just me, I have a soft heart. I am looking for a very special lady to spend my life with and for me it will take a very special lady. I have been through a lot and I am patient and willing to compromise any situation, but I am looking for true love.
I can be a little sarcastic at times, but I definitely work on holding my tongue. I take constructive criticism well, but I don't stay very uplifted if im constantly being yelled at. *hint *hint.

If you are a special lady and I know that all of you are very special, but if you could be My special lady I would love to talk with you and get to know you. = )

Im calm, laid back (most the time), down to do most anything (that won't increase my odds of gettin pulverized more than I am already.) I am very sweet, but I am very aware and cautious (badboy at heart).
I love kids and hope to be able to have some one day, take things step at a time tho.

Well I hope to speak with you = ) and if I don't fit the expectations your looking for in a man, I hope that you find what your in search of = )